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The Peacemakers Pledge |
A Commitment to Biblical Conflict Resolution |
| As people reconciled to God by the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, we believe that we are called to respond to conflict in a way that is remarkably different from the way the world deals with conflict. We also believe that conflict provides opportunities to glorify God, serve other people, and grow to be like Christ. Therefore, in response to God's love and in reliance on His grace, we commit ourselves to respond to conflict according to the following principles:
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| Glorify God * Instead of focusing on our own desires or dwelling on what others may do, we seek to please and honor God-by depending on His wisdom, power, and love; by faithfully obeying His commands; and by seeking to maintain a loving, merciful, and forgiving attitude. |
| Get the log out of your own eye * Instead of attacking others or dwelling on their wrongs, we will take responsibility for our own contribution to conflicts-Confessing our sins, asking God to help us to change any attitudes and habits that lead to conflict, and seeking to repair any harm we caused. |
| Go and show your brother his fault * Instead of pretending that conflict doesn't exist or talking about others behind their backs, we will choose to overlook minor offenses, or we will talk directly and graciously with those whose offenses seem too serious to overlook. When conflict with another Christian cannot be resolved in private, we will ask others in the body of Christ to help us settle the matter in a biblical manner. |
| Go and be reconciled * Instead of accepting premature compromise or allowing relationships to wither, we will actively pursue genuine peace and reconciliation - forgiving others as God, for Christ's sake, has forgiven us, and seeking just and mutually beneficial solutions to our differences.
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| By God's grace, we will apply these principles as a matter of stewardship, realizing that conflict is an opportunity, not an accident. We will remember that success, in God's eyes, is not a matter of specific results but of faithful, dependent obedience. And we will pray that our service as peacemakers brings praise to our Lord and leads others to know His infinite love. |
Adopted by the Board of Directors, Christian Haven, Inc. March 4, 2000 |
| Reprinted (adopted) from the Peacemaker Brochure, copyright PeacemakerŽ Ministries (406/256-1583). If you would like to learn more about biblical peacemaking, you may contact PeacemakerŽ Ministries at 1537 Ave. D, Ste 352 Billings, MT 59102, 406/256/-1583, www.hispeace.org |
